Today’s story does not focus exclusively on the food at
parties and other celebrations, but on another important, and often ignored aspect
of hosting such events – the giving of gifts. I hope to inspire you to
increased effort in this regard, when you next give a dinner party. Your guests
will thank you. Please do invite me, I am sure I will be available on the day.
The following, most inspirational piece comes from a South
Australian newspaper, The Register
(Adelaide) of 22nd May, 1909.
ALADDINS OF THE DINNER TABLE.
FABULOUS SUMS ON HOSPITALITY.
If you went out to dine on the
invitation of a friend and were to find a thousand
dollar stick-pin carelessly
fastened to your serviette, or if a ring of clustered diamonds appeared frozen
in your glass of wine, you would probably have sensations, and if translucent
pearls were to gleam from the hearts of orchids about you, and if all the roses
and lilies on the table had diamonds like dewdrops at their centre, it would
surely seem to you like the realization of a dream rising mistily from The
Arabian Nights. Yet such things as these have really been witnessed at modern
banquets; for there are dinners and dinners. We have all had some experience
with dinners which were delicious in their gastronomy and perfect in their
service. The number of courses and the varieties of wine have varied according
to the taste or the prodigality of our hosts. But the modern dinner in these
days of uncounted wealth depends neither upon the art of the chef nor the trained
skill of the servitors. The antidote for indigestion is now of fabulous value,
in order that it may really stir the jaded feelings of a blasé diner-out. For
such a one, the rarest creations of a maitre d'hotel possess no novelty; but
gold and jewels rouse an appetite which will not respond to mere food, even
though preceded by the most piquant aperitif. He accepts the saying of the
twentieth-century pundit to the effect that 'better is a dinner where wealth is
than a stalled ox amid poverty.'
—Separate
Banquet for Each Guest. —
This was evidently the opinion of
a Philadelphian when he gave in Paris a, few
years, ago a dinner which is
famous in the annals of luxury. He provided both the
stalled ox, and the, wealth,
thereby escaping the reproach of 'slowness' which attached to the customs of the Quaker
city. He went far beyond the wildest nights of the Roman Vitellius; for that
Emperor, merely gave his guests their choice among 2,000 ‘arrangements' of
fish, and 7,ooo of game and fowl, at a feast that cost a beggarly £40,000, at which
there was not even one little jewelled surprise for a lady. At the American's
banquet, however, each guest was served separately with a dinner that would
have been sufficient to maintain an ordinary family for a week. Iridescent
fountains, leaping from great blocks' of ice, played and sparkled before every
diner, cooling the air and at the same time delighting the eye. The individual menu
included a large salmon, a whole leg of mutton, a truffled fowl, a basket of peaches,
and innumerable bottles of the rarest wine. In keeping with this lavishness
were the jewelled favours. A dainty bag of silk and lace was passed about. Into
it each guest thrust his or her hand and drew forth some valuable present — a
ring, a scarfpin, a brooch, or some other ornament, ranging in cost from £160
to £300. Another famous jewel banquet was once given by Howard Gould. This dinner
began in a quiet way, but presently there was placed upon the table before the host
an odd-looking dish of great size, covered with a layer of daintily browned pastry.
Amid an expectant hush Mr. Gould slipped through the crust a golden knife, revealing
an interior filled with dazzling gems, which were distributed by the handful
among the guests. Probably the notion of such a thing originated years ago in Paris
at a dinner given by a wealthy nobleman. On this occasion, when the crust was
raised, out stepped a dwarf fantastically-dressed, and bearing a silver salver heaped
with jewels. This, however, had the merit of wit in addition to the notoriety
of lavishness; for the dwarf, in presenting each gift, uttered a clever verse appropriate
to the receiver of the jewel. A Chicago millionaire, named Harry Hosenfeld,
introduced a novel hiding place for costly favours. At his dinner, clusters of orchids
at each place concealed gems, every one of which was valued at more than £300.
Another Chicagoan, Nathaniel Moore, provided a novelty at a birthday dinner
which he gave in February of last year. He was not content to arrange a theatre
party followed by a sumptuous supper but, by a change which reminds one of
Aladdin and his lamp, the scene was shifted rapidly from the theatre to a
private dinner room at Rectors, which had been transformed into a seeming
fairyland. The pillars in the room were draped in
great masses of American Beauty
roses (this in the heart of winter), while the tables gleamed with crystal and
silver. As each guest took up a napkin, from inside it there fell a
leather-covered box, containing some ornament of diamonds or emeralds or pearls.
—Live
Swans Gem Bedecked.—
It was Julius Sleyer, a New
Yorker, who conceived the idea of giving a swan dinner to 15 men who were his
intimate friends. The table was spread in a garden of roses, with bowers of
interwoven vines, and hung with clusters of rare fruit. The white columns were
hidden by festoons of smilax and evergreens, and in the hollow square formed by
the tables was a miniature lake, in which live swans moved grace fully about,
their necks encircled by sparkling gems. Below, in the clear water, could be
seen goldfish, while the edge of the pool was banked with; rare tropical plants
and pond lilies, which half-concealed clusters of coloured lights. Two lavish
dinner-givers of the last decade were the late Lawrence Jerome and Howell
Osborne. Almost any story of their entertainments will pass unchallenged; and
they may be regarded as having initiated the present day, craze for dinners,
with a capital D. One banquet at Delmonico's when that restaurant was down town, cost Mr,
Jerome £160 a cover — a goodly sum even now: while Howell Osborne give a number
of what might be called 'continuous entertainments,' including dinner, a
theatre party, a late-supper, and breakfast the next morning. More than once
his guest were presented with gifts of jewels of which the value of each
extended into four figures.
—When a
Diamond King Dines.—
The 'continuous performance
entertainment,' however, goes back historically to the year 1470, when George
Nevil celebrated his advancement to the high dignity of Archbishop of York. The
new Archbishop kept his palace open to all comers for 31 hours. During this
time there were consumed 300 swine, 2,000 chickens, 10,ooo sheep. 4,000 ducks,
4,000 deer, 200 tanks of ale, and 140 tanks of wine. Possibly the generous host
was severely criticised for giving no jewelled mementoes. In 1906 a celebrated May
[?] party was given by a South African diamond king at a fashionable London
restaurant. All the accessories of a diamond mine were utilized, and so
perfect, was the illusion that the dinner was pronounced the sensation of the
year. The floor was covered with sand glittering with tiny specks of mica.
Around the table there were arranged great blocks of quartz, in which were embedded
well-defined veins of gold. Lumps of blue clay, with small diamond points
protruding from it, were also used in the scheme of decoration. There were
picks and shovels, and individual lamps to be attached to the “miners'” caps,
with bags of gold dust and small nuggets of virgin metal at each place. Turtle soup
was served in a huge iron pot by waiters who were coal-black natives imported
from Central Africa. At the doors of the dining hall armed Boers stood on guard,
carrying pistols and long, murderous-looking knives. It must have been a rather
uncomfortable affair: but it was unique in its way, and the gifts of nuggets and
gold dust entitle it to a place in the list of beneficiary dinners.
—Plum
Stones Were Real Pearls.—
At another London restaurant, about
the same time, occurred a Venetian dinner, to called. The courtyard of the
hotel was flooded with water which was artificially coloured bright blue.
Gondoliers propelled their graceful vessels here and there, and sang the songs
of Venice. The guests, who dined in a bower overlooking this artificial lagoon,
could see hundreds of goldfish in the water beneath them. Here, again, jewels
were the presents given. It creates in one a slight feeling of repulsion to
learn that the fish all died in a short time from the effects of the bluing,
which had been scattered in the water. Do you recall the famous dish of yellow
plums which Prince Potemkin once offered to a dinner party in the Crimea, at
which the principal guest was the Empress Catherine of Russia? The pits of the
plums were rare pearls, and each guest helped himself to them with a large gold
spoon, which he was asked to keep in addition to the pearls. This pleasant
little feature served to enliven a dull day and perhaps, to render palatable an
indifferently cooked dinner. To-day the time has come when the influence of a really
good dinner stamps itself upon a man and transforms him into a good donor.
—Family
Dinners. —
There have been some rather extraordinary
family dinners, which, in fact, have
eclipsed the banquets already
chronicled. Thus, in 1903, Mr. Pabst, the well-known brewer of Milwaukee,
presented his wife and four children each with a million-dollar block of stocks
in his brewery — five million dollars in all - at a Christmas dinner! Again,
the late millionaire, Charles Lockhart, of the Standard Oil Company, prepared a
slight surprise for his family. The dinner in question was a pleasant home
affair, free from every form of ostentation. But when, after the first course,
the plates were removed, little slips of paper were discovered under them, each
one displaying a few lines in Mr. Lockhart's characteristic scrawl – “Pay for
the order of one million dollars. Charles Lockhart.” Shortly after his death
this incident was cited as an example of his eccentricity; but it is probable
that he already knew his end to be approaching, and that he gave this large sum
of money directly to the members of his family without waiting for the slow
processes of the Probate Court. We may picture a still more novel sort of
banquet at which, instead of ingots or bags of gold dust or nuggets each lady
will find at her place a costly duke, an expensive earl, or even a rare
specimen of prince!
Your guests will surely be delighted with the wealth of edible
delights on your table, even if you are unable or unwilling to risk choking
them with hidden diamonds or little piles of gold dust. Please enjoy the
following ideas:
Gold Cake.
Three-quarters of a cup of
butter, beaten to a cream, one cup of sugar, the yolks of eight eggs, two
cupsful of sifted flour, one teaspoonful of cream of tartar, half a teaspoonful
of soda dissolved in half a cup of sweet milk, which must be added lastly; bake
one hour in a moderate oven.
Sunday Times (Perth,
WA) Sunday 10 September 1905.
Silver Cake.
One cup of sugar, ½ cup of milk, ½ cup butter, ½ cup cornflour, 1
½ cup of flour, 2 teaspoons baking powder, whites of three eggs, vanilla, salt.
Beat the butter to a cream and gradually beat in the sugar and add flavouring.
Mix the flour and baking powder together. Dissolve the cornflour in the milk
and add to the sugar, and butter. The well-beaten whites and flour must be
lightly stirred in. Bake about half an hour.
Maryborough Chronicle, Wide Bay and Burnett
Advertiser (Qld.) Saturday 25 September 1926